As a newlywed, I spent a lot of time last year going through countless bachelorette party sites, looking for decor and themes that felt modern and clean. Time after time, all I found were pink, rose gold, or tie-dye options covered in that cursive font that makes me cringe every time I look at it. Nothing I see motivates me to want to wear or use it again after the bachelorette party has passed.
With the amount of money that you put into this era of your life, you want to make sure that you’re putting funds into things that can be worn and used again and again, even after your wedding has passed. I wanted just that! Something different. Something you would see Sofia Richie or Hailey Bieber have. My party was in Deer Valley, Utah, in December, so the theme was focused on the snow and smores by the fire vibes. All I could find were “Flannel Fling Before the Ring” or “Snow in Love” themes that didn’t fit my overall aesthetic. After a while, I decided to give up on looking for cute themes and party decorations and created my own instead.
That’s when “Bonfires and Bubbly” was created.
I was going for a very Sporty and Rich aesthetic: clean, classy, country club vibes. I nailed it with my deep forest green and ivory color theme, simple script fonts, and minimal graphic design elements. In this article, I’ll review ten new bachelorette party theme ideas for the modern-day bride and all the best places to get cute decor for your party.
10 Bachelorette Themes for the Modern Bride
Finding something chic and cute for your bachelorette party online is nearly impossible. Every time you search “Bachelorette Party Themes,” you get cheesy fonts, pink tones (sometimes a girl wants something other than pink), and all the bride-tribe merch that just doesn’t work for the chic bride-to-be.
The On Cloud 9 aesthetic is airy, light, and focused around blue, silver, and white tones. Whether taking this theme on island time or hitting the slopes, it is perfect for the soft-girl aesthetic.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- The RSVP Co. has a semi-custom theme dedicated just to this! Order cups, napkins, banners, and silver fringe curtains that fit the aesthetic.
- Fluffy Cloud Balloons from Xo Fetti would be the cutest detail to add in.
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with the On Cloud 9 logo all over them from The RSVP Co.
- Blue Claw Clips are a perfect idea to throw in your gift bags.
This theme takes a modern spin on the “Brides Last Ride” or “Last Rodeo” theme. Most online shops have bright pink and cow-print decor options for this theme. Although it’s not the worst, it doesn’t always fit the modern aesthetic. Nashville is the usual spot for a bachelorette like this, but “Cowgirls Crossing: Boots and Bubbly” has no bounds on party destinations. Whether you want to hit up a rodeo, ride horses in Montana, or spend the weekend on a beach like a coastal cowgirl, this theme is perfect.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- The RSVP Co. has a semi-custom theme dedicated just to this! Order cups, napkins, banners, and fringe curtains that fit the aesthetic.
- A BRIDE Cowgirl Hat from Xo Fetti would be the cutest detail to add in.
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with the Cowgirls Crossing logo all over them from The RSVP Co.
- Order Cowboot printed keychains to give to all your girls!
I love this theme so much. The Wine and Wellness Wives Club is for my HGW girlies who love going to group pilates classes, chasing the sunset, and having wine nights with your book club. This is the perfect theme for brides wanting a refreshing weekend away with their bridal party. This theme works nearly anywhere in the Hamptons, Napa Valley, Madrid, or the Oregon Coast.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- The RSVP Co. has a semi-custom theme dedicated just to this! Order cups, napkins, banners, and fringe curtains that fit the aesthetic.
- Custom yoga mats would be the cutest detail to add to your gift bags.
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with the Wine and Wellness Wives Club logo all over them from The RSVP Co.
- Add claw clips, custom beach towels, water bottles with your logo, wine labels, and more to make this a unique experience.
This theme is perfect for Palm Springs, Scottsdale, San Diego, Montana, or any HOT mountain location. I have loved the Perfect Match theme, and adding the special touch of Canyon Country Club just gives it that extra unf. The idea behind my hooks is to make them seem like a brand. Make your merch something that you and your besties will want to wear repeatedly, even after your wedding has already passed.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- The RSVP Co. has a semi-custom theme dedicated just to this! Order cups, napkins, banners, and fringe curtains that fit the aesthetic.
- Custom tennis balls would be the cutest detail to add to your gift bags.
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with your logo from The RSVP Co.
- Add claw clips, scrunchies, water bottles with your logo, or sun-protectant products to your gift bags.
Calling all of my island-hopping brides-to-be! This theme is ELECTRIC for anyone going
to the Bahamas and Dominican Republic, on a cruise, or even to exotic locations like Hawaii or Turks and Caicos. I’m so in love with this theme; it makes me want to have another bachelorette party.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- The RSVP Co. can custom-curate this theme just for you! Order cups, napkins, banners, decorations, playing cards, water bottles, and more!
- You have to get matching bathing suits!
- Get your girls the perfect tote bags and hats with your logo from The RSVP Co.
- Add custom “resort-style” wristbands printed with your “buy the bride a drink” QR code for easy scanning!
When I think of this theme, the Bond Girl aesthetic comes straight to mind. The ultimate girls' trips to places like Miami, Naples, Malibu, Puerto Rico, or the French Riveria. Hit the beach, spend the night at a casino, and sip on martinis all weekend. This theme screams class. Black and white colored everything with touches of blue, matching with gold or silver (whichever kind of girl your bride is).
What Do I Need To Buy?
- The RSVP Co. has a semi-custom theme dedicated just to this! Order cups, napkins, banners, and fringe curtains that fit the aesthetic.
- Matching hats would be the cutest detail to add to your gift bags.
- Get your girls the perfect custom tote bags with your logo all over them from The RSVP Co.
- Add claw clips, water bottles with your logo, playing cards, or sun-protectant products to your gift bags.
- Custom casino chips with your “buy the bride a drink” QR Code would be such a cute detail to add.
Paris, Las Vegas, and New York City, this theme is giving “up all night, head of heels.”
energy. This idea is so cute for a Galentine weekend getaway. Sacrifice your last Valentine’s Day as an unmarried couple and spend your last single Galentine’s Day with your best girlfriends. Feathers, hearts, candy, movie nights, and specialty cocktails! It’s the perfect previous sleepover vibe.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- Customize this theme with The RSVP Co.! Order cups, napkins, banners, decorations, and customized products.
- Custom tennis balls would be the cutest detail to add to your gift bags.
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with your logo from The RSVP Co.
- Add claw clips, scrunchies, water bottles with your logo, or sun-protectant products to your gift bags.
Camp Bachelorette isn’t unheard of, and it is adorable. Instead of doing the typical theme, make the vibes a little more classy by calling it Camp Nearly Wed. I love going for a “The Parent Trap" summer camp style, with Girl Scout sashes, weekend achievement pins, card games, laying out by the pool, and ending the night with a sunset bonfire or roasting marshmallows to make the perfect s’more.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- Customize this theme with The RSVP Co.! Order cups, napkins, banners, decorations, and customized products.
- Custom pins or patches for “Weekend Achievements” would be so cute to add on sashes or custom hats for each girl.
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with your logo from The RSVP Co.
- Playing cards with your logo to have a fully customized camp experience
Oh, how I love this theme. It’s giving a coastal granddaughter meets The Summer I Turned Pretty meets The White Lotus. It's chic, with lots of blues, shells, cottages, and a glass (or 50) of crisp chardonnay. Dreamy coastal destinations like Alys Beach, Kiawah Island, Cape Cod, Montauk, or the Amalfi Coast are perfect for this theme. I want to see coordinated styled nights like all-white outfits, “dripping in gold” nights, and pajama party nights streaming all the classic beachy chick flicks like Aquamarine or Blue Crush. This theme would even be perfect for a weekend cruise getaway! So many options to choose from.
What Do I Need To Buy?
- Customize this theme with The RSVP Co.! Order cups, napkins, banners, decorations, and customized products.
- Matching bathing suits are a must!
- Get your girls the perfect custom tote bags with your logo all over them from The RSVP Co.
- Girls' night calls for making matching friendship bracelets. Buy this kit!
Last, you have the ever so modernly beautiful “Brides Last Name” theme. I think this is such a lux vibe to have for the weekend. Making your name the theme has so many options for decorations and vibes. You can have a little bit of everything. Make each night a different theme out! Disco night, cowgirls night, pajama party, or whatever you feel! Using the Beach Resort or Ski Lodge as the leading aesthetic gives room to have your merchandise be used repeatedly. Make your name your brand!
What Do I Need To Buy?
- Customize this theme with The RSVP Co.! Order cups, napkins, banners, decorations, and customized products.
- Beach party? Custom towels with your new custom resort name on them for your girls are perfect!
- Weekend on the slopes? Get your girls matching beanies
- Get your girls the perfect custom-matching crewnecks or tote bags with your logo from The RSVP Co.